How A Heart Breaks
i.m. Martin Cooke (1955-2021)
‘Behold the fowls of the air’
Matthew 6:26
This is the way it happens: a voice on the phone
explaining that one we took for granted
is no longer there, that junk food
and countless pints that wrecked
your balance and strained your heart
became in the end too much –
even at your shuffling pace.
Refusing to put a penny aside, so long
as you could buy a drink, your hapless ways
endeared you to all: the ducking and diving
by which you survived, the crazy
pickles you got through.
Simply living from day to day,
you always heard what we were saying
but carried on your own way,
sustained by football, films and rock –
your knowledge of trivia
dazzling, your grasp of the past
decisive. In a house
of scholars you were a savant
in a different way. No fixtures,
albums or dates escaped you.
We bought our first records together:
I feel free and Paper Sun –
though the only match I've ever attended
was one I took you to.
Before you died you supplied
the details: Reading v Southend Utd,
with your side winning 4-2.
So farewell, Martin, at rest now,
surely, amongst the gentlest souls,
who never strove
or sowed dissension,
or stored up wealth in barns.
Greg Freeman
Wed 29th Dec 2021 09:07
A wonderfully balanced picture of a life, and appreciation of someone different. Thank you for sharing it here, David. I'm sorry for your loss.