I was tuning my guitar the other day and was getting confused as to why the string was sound lower when I was trying to tune it higher. I rememberer the phrase, righty tightly, lefty loosey then realize I was turning the knob the wrong way. once I felt the string getting tighter, more Resistance as a turned it the right I knew I was on the right track. Because  Resistance happens when God is leading you in the right direction. 
I've dated the "low-key" l, easy going girls that let you do whatever you want and never question or challenge your ideas. Who wants that? That's not how you grow. 
If Jesus didn't challenge the societal norms of the times, as the Greeks imposed their will and customs upon the Jews where would we be right now? 
To be like Jesus is doing what you know is right no matter what the opposition says, because some people profit of things staying the same. To choose not to evolve is choosing not to believe that there is more in store