Solace
Solitary. Alone. Social distances blown away
On a fine spring day. Bloom like the moon.
I've been practising self isolation for decades
I say aloneness is central to the human condition.
Not loneliness. Not that which scars and scares,
Sinks and separates. But a choice, to recognize
We are born to be alone. We die alone.Cowards
Die many times, the brave, just that one significant
Drift into death. Leaving others bereft. Ourselves?
We step out of time. Grind our heathen teeth with
A kind of unfocused, half-arsed relief. Finally,
We shake off this mortal coil. Stand tall. Alone.
John Marks
Sun 29th Mar 2020 23:52
Yes. I do Keith. Knowing we are alone does not make us lonely. It makes us real. And it does not make us stop loving all those others who recognize their aloneness. I am not lonely. I love my family and friends. But I am alone. Take care my good friend and stay safe. We need your wisdom.
This is a very long quotation but worth reading, Rainer Maria Rilke is a beautiful poet:
“Therefore, dear Sir, love your solitude and try to sing out with the pain it causes you. For those who are near you are far away... and this shows that the space around you is beginning to grow vast.... be happy about your growth, in which of course you can't take anyone with you, and be gentle with those who stay behind; be confident and calm in front of them and don't torment them with your doubts and don't frighten them with your faith or joy, which they wouldn't be able to comprehend. Seek out some simple and true feeling of what you have in common with them, which doesn't necessarily have to alter when you yourself change again and again; when you see them, love life in a form that is not your own and be indulgent toward those who are growing old, who are afraid of the aloneness that you trust.... and don't expect any understanding; but believe in a love that is being stored up for you like an inheritance, and have faith that in this love there is a strength and a blessing so large that you can travel as far as you wish without having to step outside it.”
― Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet