BUYING TIME
My father-in-law is an avid gardener. He visits local garden centres at least three times a week, and always for a scone and tea lunch. You might think this is a bit obsessive or even sad but it lends structure to their week and gives my mother-in-law, who has dementia, some sort of physical and mental stimulation.
Quite frequently he’ll also buy a plant or two. Some might be bargains but some are quite expensive plants (at least by my parsimonious standards).
I asked him once why he shelled out such large amounts on fully mature plants, when I would get a much cheaper, smaller specimen.
He said “I’m 91. I might never see the one you’ve bought mature. You think I’m buying a plant. I’m not.
I’m buying Time”.
John Coopey
Tue 27th Sep 2022 10:23
Thankyou, Isobel and Graham. Apart from the obvious high-mileage mechanical breakdowns I find myself expecting to be able to do some physical activity that was no problem years ago - like putting my socks on standing up or loping across a busy road like a panther.