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MUSTN'T GRUMBLE

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Stress.

Now there’s a generational thing.

I mean, whoever heard of stress 50 years ago? 

Perhaps they didn’t have the highly pressurised lives we lead today.

I’d look well telling my grandad that in Heaven.

“Oh, you did?” he’d say.  “Was it from the Bosch trying to shoot your bollocks off?”

No. Their generation and others before them ( and, come to think of it, today’s societies less emotionally fragile than ours) just got on with it.

We, on the other hand, mither over work-related stress.  During the Depression there wasn’t work to get stressed about.

But we, we expect our lives to be lived in some namby-pamby land where “happiness reigns all around and music plays ever so loudly”.

WELL WE DON’T.

DH Lawrence had it right about that frozen bird.

Bill Bryson saw it as a positive national characteristic when he first came to England – “Mustn’t Grumble”.

He wouldn’t hear it now, of course.  He’d be told “She’s off work with stress”.

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John Coopey

Mon 22nd Aug 2016 01:07

I suspect you have a broad enough back to bear the criticism levelled at you, MC. Thanks for the comments.

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M.C. Newberry

Sat 20th Aug 2016 18:03

Some pertinent and enjoyable observations on life, as it
was and as it is now. A pal of many years in our public
service work used to grin and advise me to "Avoid stress". It was top notch advice.
A chat and a pint dealt with that sort of thing if events
got too painful or messy...long before "counselling" was
the buzz word it is today. The soldier home from war
found best relief in shared experiences with comrades
- not talking to someone who had no concept of what he had endured and who probably referred to some "how to" manual in its place.
Personally, I believe that stress can trigger serious
physical illness (mind and body link) and my old pal's
words of wisdom stay with me in my eighth decade...so
far mercifully free from the latter.
I've even found it possible to absorb the stress of criticism here on WOL and hopefully add days or even
weeks to my life!
Musn't grumble!

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