Never trust a lover who ...
Never trust a lover who in the throes of passion
calls you 'Baby' or 'Babe' -
that generic name for a sex partner
whose body is equally generic.
It means in an unguarded moment
the name of someone else entirely
might slip out with an orgasmic yelp
which definitely would not be cool
a real mood buster.
In fairness such caution
does mark a certain level of empathy
for the partner's psyche -
and the clever talker obviously hopes
for another fling.
There must be a lot of sex around
with 'Babe' this and 'Baby' that
non-committal pap for the fizz of the minute
a slug of soda pop
compared to fine wine on the palate.
Cynthia Buell Thomas
Oct., 2016
Cynthia Buell Thomas
Thu 20th Oct 2016 11:58
Thanks, Trevor, But me! A cynic? Actually, I'm not, I'm really not, although that finger has been pointed before. A realist, I could live with.
Posturers and posers annoy me. I'm very sympathetic with those who are going through 'phases' as a learning or adjusting process related to growing up, or to personal problems unique to them. But toward a mode of life carried on deliberately, in adequately good mental health, I'm very cold-hearted. IMO, a person is always the basic product of childhood experiences which can never quite be reconstructed towards a preferred result. We do but try.