MEETING IN A PHOTOGRAPH
I don't recall meeting my father
Except in a photograph;
I was barely four years old
In this family epitaph.
My mother, sisters and brother
Are stood and sat around,
While my father gazes at me
From a chair close to the ground.
Already gaunt and painfully thin,
I wonder about his fear
That TB would see that rictus grin
Gone within the year...
Leaving my mother alone
To cope as best she could
With three daughters almost grown,
The rest of us trying to be good.
Two girls were to marry young
And head for the USA,
Wartime romances blossoming,
Seeing them live far away.
My elder brother and I
Discovered disciplined careers
That saw us survive to pension age,
Well prepared for later years.
But occasionally my eye will fall
On that forties photograph...
A silent gathering of sadness
Its eternal epitaph.
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M.C. Newberry
Fri 27th Jan 2017 19:01
TD, JC and PW - many thanks for the positive remarks.
My father was from Victorian Devon farming & inn-keeping
stock. He managed to survive the Western and Italian
Fronts in WW1, then the violence of post-War Irish efforts
to shrug off British rule, and was again in uniform for WW2
before succumbing to a disease that would see a cure
not long after his death. He deserved better and so did
his wife - my mother, left to fend for family and self, but
not bowing to the pressures that she faced, finally
passing on herself after marrying twice more - aged 90!
They don't make 'em like that anymore.