Never trust a lover who

in the throes of passion calls you 'Baby' or 'Babe' -

that generic name for a partner

whose body is generic too.

It simply means - in an unguarded moment -

your lover might call you something else

for someone else

which would not be cool.

 

In fairness, such caution could mark

a certain empathy for the other person's psyche.

But, more likely, the clever talker really hopes

for a repeat performance

which means you passed the exam.

 

This measured calculation cuts both ways.

Neither male nor female in whatever combination

is exempt from such perfidy

for the mere exchange of body fluids.

In casual sex - simple societal copulating -

surely the best policy is to get on with business

and leave phony endearments out altogether.

Don't be so gullible.

You are a fish hooked for carnal consumption.

 

But – big huge gigantic colossal BUT -

if you treasure someone dearly

speak your beloved's name often:

that single word will whisper

through head and heart forever

with your voice alone.

And age will not diminish its power.

 

Cynthia Buell Thomas, Oct., 2016