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Farewell, Sir Bobby

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Thunderous shooting that transcended his era.
Maybe you have to be a certain age.
When they announced it during the match
the crowd of six hundred
barely reacted. No gasps or murmurs.
My son shrugged, apologetic.

I was thirteen in 1966, watching every game
I could on TV, filling in the wall charts.
Never thought we could beat Eusebio’s Portugal,
the team of the tournament. But two goals
from the Munich survivor, the Busby Babe,
kept our Jules Rimet dreams alive.

The opposite of Best in so many ways:
trying to hide his baldness, too worried
to be a hero. No pin-up, no tantrums.
Where were you when you heard the news?
Me, just a few miles from Ashington,
watching Blyth Spartans lose.

Didn’t expect it to hit me this hard.

 

 

◄ Great North Run, 2023

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R A Porter

Sat 28th Oct 2023 17:23

Thank you Greg. I was in the kitchen. When I heard, I looked at my wife and involuntarily said “Not Bobby?” before tears started to form. Living in Manchester with two older brothers who supported United (apologies all,but in Manchester there really is only one), one of whom was at Wembley for the ‘68 European Cup Final, I grew up immersed in the romance of the club of that era. The Busby Babes were present in my life from a very early age and, because my brothers told me, I knew that Duncan Edwards was the greatest of all time. The names “Charlton, Law and Best” were scrawled on pencil cases and school exercise book covers. My first red football shirt had a white number 7 on the back and in my imagination I was always Georgie Best, dribbling between plant pots and hammering in shots from impossible angles. I idolised Bobby too, but his image as the quiet, modest, balding genius didn’t have quite the same appeal as George. Family holidays as a kid were spent driving between camp sites around Europe in my Dad’s less-than-reliable 1963 Singer Vogue. The 1967 trip was an epic odyssey, crossing the Alps in Austria and eventually reaching Yugoslavia. Wherever we travelled and whoever we met along the way from shopkeepers to Police officers (usually when the car broke down) the word “Manchester” would elicit smiles and the responses “Manchester United!” and “Bobby Charlton!” Even aged 6 it made me proud. Proud of where I came from, proud of who I supported - and proud of Bobby. Twenty years on, when I worked with him on a project for the Bobby Charlton Soccer School it was an absolute privilege although I was completely tongue-tied. Understated, shy, polite, but with a flash of steel in those blue eyes that was a testament to his inner strength and that astonishing life. I loved him. Thank you Bobby, Rest In Peace.

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Greg Freeman

Mon 23rd Oct 2023 09:18

Thanks Graham, Steve, John, MC, and Uilleam for your comments, and to Nigel, Red Brick, Holden and John for the Likes. I've been hearing stories from local poetry friends about the Charltons on my FB page ... more comments about Jack and Sissie than Bobby, as it happens.

Uilleam Ó Ceallaigh

Sun 22nd Oct 2023 19:50

"The opposite of Best in so many ways:"

Speaks volumes Greg: having said that, I wonder what I'd have done with his money and fame!

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M.C. Newberry

Sun 22nd Oct 2023 17:31

He'll be joining some formidable talents in that heavenly team -
Stan Matthews, Stan Mortensen, Tom Finney...for a start.
I recall the words of a WW2 veteran of the US 501 Airborne
Division who, when asked by his grandson if he was a hero, replied "No, but I was in a company of heroes".
With his place in the 1966 World Cup win and a notable career
at Manchester United, I think Bobby Charlton might claim the same.

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John Coopey

Sun 22nd Oct 2023 11:20

I once saw “Gentleman” Bobby booked for ungentlemanly conduct, Graham. It was at the City Ground when Forest beat United 3-1 in the 60’s.
United put in a centre which one of the Forest players was about to head clear when Sir Bobby shouted “Leave it!”.
Booked.
The crowd loved it.

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Graham Sherwood

Sun 22nd Oct 2023 10:03

Well JC I must admit I was firmly a Bobbie Smith boy at heart but BC was a savior for England many a time!
A gentleman of which there are scarce few if any in the game these days!

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John Coopey

Sun 22nd Oct 2023 09:18

Warning - Unpopular Post
I’m afraid I always thought him one of the most over-rated players ever. I thought he traded on a speculative bullet from the edge of the box and not much else. And for every one that hit the back of the net ten ballooned over the stand.
There. I’ve said it.

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Stephen Gospage

Sun 22nd Oct 2023 09:03

Well done on this one, Greg. I was also thirteen in 1966 and remember the collective sigh of relief when his screamer hit the back of the net against Mexico in the second match.
A dignified, if sometimes rather sad-looking, figure, he lacked the ruthlessness of brother Jack to become a successful manager, but endeared himself to almost everyone who saw him play.
Like you, the news made me stop and reflect. A generation (almost) gone.

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Greg Freeman

Sun 22nd Oct 2023 08:54

From somewhere, anyway, Graham! I know this poem is a bit downbeat, but I was shocked at the crowd's lack of reaction at Blyth Spartans. The announcer even emphasised that he came from Ashington ... I hated Man Utd too much in the 60s to idolise Charlton, but he did win that game against Portugal, and I've never forgotten that. I don't think I really appreciated his qualities enough. Since coming up here I've been fascinated by the Ashington connection. They say his wife fell out with Cissie, and that caused a family rupture that was never repaired. They recently unveiled a statue of Jack Charlton in the park where they played as kids. Nothing for Bobby.

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Graham Sherwood

Sun 22nd Oct 2023 08:13

My joint boyhood her with Jimmy of course! Only one more left to go (Geoff) until they win the Celestial World Cup up there Greg!
We’ll hear the crowd from down here!

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