At the Core
There is no santa claus
that is all tripe
it amounts to emotional abuse
by hypocrites
who instead of telling their children the truth
feed them a lie
and then bemoan when their children's trust is blown
not acknowledging that the seed was sown
all the years they repeatedly said
a fat man in a red suit with white trimmings
loves you more than your own
never realising that bribing the kids to be good
and falsifying their parenthood
on the basis of some clause of fantasy
needed to make their children happy,
was proof positive
of their own ill will
and lack of care
in making sure
the children would be emotional stable and aware
that truth matters in a relationship.
Don't tell me the children don't mind
cause if you look behind
at the years ago
when you found out to your woe
that that fat man clause
was nothing more
than a figment of collective imagination,
you will see that that moment of truth
hurt to the core, made you suffer more
than if daddy had been straight
and given you that 'best' present himself;
instead of being fake
and encouraging a dream
that never really made you feel good inside-
though happy to take
at the expense of the threats
the treats.
So we all get over it, you say
that is because there IS something there
to get over.
and was it worth it?
and why repeat it?
why pass to a blob, a bubble of unreal love
the gift of giving
to your own beloved?
If your love is true
for the children had by you.....(?)
you surely want them to treasure
and know beyond doubt
that mummy or daddy
would not lie about
something that they have made
so special
so much at the core
of a time of celebrating
the familial bond.
and so I say there is no santa clause
crash the myth
and get on with
being truthful and honest
and by that means
enjoy the season
in a state of goodwill
and never let it be known
that you knowingly
emotionally
abused your kid
just because your parents did.
Jeff Dawson
Tue 8th Dec 2009 22:31
Hi Beulah, have to agree with a lot of this even though my daughter is 9 and still believes, not for long! I suppose its nice up to an earlier age than 9 but I'm not sure why we want to continue deceiving!
Oh well, I just wish they would only start it all in december and not august! You should read my 'Do they know its christamas poem - think its in my dec 08 blogs, happy new year! Jeff X